It’s ALL about LOVE

We read books about love, listen about love, talk about love and even express love to our family or even non-family members.  But the real question arises that does we all know everything about this thing called ‘Love’?

I read somewhere that you discover more about love with getting yourself involve more into it. Experiencing more straightens in this love thing. Love is such a complicated thing which is full of love, passion, trust, misunderstanding, understandings and off course an opposite sex. This imperfectly-perfect thing creates a catch-22 spot around us. No matter how hard we try, but we will get attracted to it.

If we talk about these relationship, which we’ve all heard or even been into many a times which is actually real simple to catch what a situation is really like. Like, beginning of these relationships is always full with sweets and chocolates. It’s like a cute-humpty-dumpty- teenage- love with no complains and no demands. Couples are just satisfied by just only talking or sharing their stuffs with each other.  That’s the most adorable from of love without any grudges or scraps.

But as the time grows and both the sex gradually become more mature and understanding. The Girl especially, starts to take this relationship into a very serious one or she just try to break it off. Selection of the former one creates a huge blunder for the boy to understand what is she really thinking? She starts to think to fall in his real love. Love which actually states long- term true relationship. And on the otter hand, the boy just wants to extend the relation to get more worthy and mature for their age or he wants some other chick to check onto. Selecting the former one is when he wants to give time to their relation and to make that relation worth existing. Means he really is in love with her.

This misconception regarding the relation creates a misunderstanding among the two. The real-serious stuff what now the girl is feeling is far from what the guy’s perspective really is. She starts to expect more what he is really giving or providing her.

The misinterpreted thing creates a cob-web around both the lives. They want live together but due to some reasons they can’t. A time arises when the two breaks apart and world’s get destroyed. After many hard full tries they just can’t be together for more. The sudden burning of the stone creates a big imprint in their hearts. Imprint about not being together, not being a good human or a good passionate lover.

Some of them moves on in their life whether some just try o do the same. According to the statistics 67.2% women and 49.6% men can not move on after their break ups. And they even try to make themselves stable with the humanity. It’s not that they don’t try to be normal in living, but it’s just the failure over again which draws them down.

The confidence, personality, humor, talent is all smashed just by breaking of a relationship. Is loving someone truly can turn to be that bad?

The answer is NO, until and unless the opposite person loves you back in the same amount and way you do to them. You just have to wait for the one who will be that special for you to take your heart away.

Love is a most beautiful and divine thing. It can not be filch or purchase neither from anyone, nor can be given or granted to someone against our will.  Love is that feeling which can not expressed in words nor actions. Love is what you express and can make the other person feel. The more you will think about this thing called love, the more it will get complicated. That’s what I’ve learnt about Love, relationships, feeling, emotions till now.

Now, I had just stopped expecting things in my life. It’s better not to expect anything than to get disappointed. I know and believe that I’ll get and achieve what I really deserve in my life.

So, No complains. .  No demands. . And No offence. .

(Silence)